Dear Michelle,
When I had all of my children(4) who are now adults, I felt the same way. I went to good will and got what I needed, I asked women I Knew who had babies for clothes and baby items they already had but did not need. You must be upbeat, creative, and always optimistic. These things will pass. In the meantime, keep your spirits up and welcome this new Gift from God when she or he arrive. Do not waste time in despair, arguing with each other, and any other nonproductive behavior, the baby will be affected by less-than-peaceful behavior.